Thursday, May 15, 2008
Sunday, May 4, 2008
Some photos
So everytime Im up north now, Mom says we need to go see Gramma "just in case". I think she is really worried about her, and rightly so; and I can say that from first hand knowledgt of walking into her dark damp bedroom is one thing, then the ammonia smells hits from all the dog crap and pee, and the bunny she doesnt need in there too that never is changed out. It will kill her eventually, and its so sad to know that and not be able to do much about it aside from calling the "authorities". But I think her being moved out of there would do just as much damage to her emotionally and she would give up anywho, so thats a catch 22. Mom does the best she can to clean her up each time shes there; Gramma lives my my Uncle and his girlfriend of 25 years, and my Aunt is about 5 minutes away but Mom is the one 30 minutes away to come running any time at all Gramma asks her too...sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. Thats love. Ive told Gramma that I have my opinions on the subject but will bite my tongue to keep peace which seems so damn important to everyone in our family; not upsetting anyone or pretty much speaking true feelings. O'well...Shane gets an earfull. He is on the same page with me, but unless Gramma asks to be out of there, we will let her be. She was always such a strong woman, it seems that spirit in her is gone.
I took the kids with me last time up there, they couldnt wait to get out in the horse barn to see Hank and the chicken that is nesting...I hope they all survive (there will be 8 babies then). She was pretty protective over her little nest and thats all the closer we could get!
So Im a little late with this...
But Erica had a good time at her party...she got to see some friends she hadnt in a long time and they got to play catch up with things. Family drama prevented more of a gathing for later but thats ok...Erica was still happy with the way things went!
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